From the Listening Room HQ – Living the Archetype of Unsupported Male Midlife

Martha Jungwirth - Metamorphosen, 2011
Martha Jungwirth – Metamorphosen, 2011

In a culture that often sidelines the midlife journey of men, this first post in a four-part series on The Listening Room HQ speaks to the archetype of the unsupported male midlife — the absence of elders, the lack of guidance, and the quiet crises that unfold when these are missing.

Read the full piece here: Living the Archetype of Unsupported Male Midlife.

This note opens a series that continues with:

For the complete series as published, visit The Listening Room HQ.

World Photography Day 2025 – A Few of My Favourite Photos

Photography is one of my two favourite arts, the other being architecture. Here are five black & white photos, from the 1940s to 2024, that inspire me.

Stanley Kubrick, Self-Portrait, 1949 Š Stanley Kubrick

Stanley Kubrick’s Self-Portrait is my computer wallpaper. I stare at Stanley, he stares at me, something ethereal clicks. Kubrick was a remarkable photographer. I dare say I prefer his photography to his films.

Yves Saint Laurent by Irving Penn, 1957 Š The Irving Penn Foundation – Foundation Pierre BergÊ-Yves Saint Laurent

Yves Saint Laurent is my favourite fashion designer. Yves was also a photographer and a collector of photography. Of the many photos taken by or of Yves, I chose this one.

Sembrancher, Viaduc de Alexandre Sarrasin,  2013 Š Jean-Marc Yersin

I came across Swiss photographer Jean-Marc Yersin’s work years ago through LinkedIn. This photo is from the series Vestiges du Val, Les carnets d’un autre temps no3/3.

We previously featured Yersin’s work La Ligne – Les carnets d’un autre temps no2/2.

Praia de Moledo 2024 Š Adelino Marques

Adelino Marques is a Portuguese photographer who privileges black and white photography. This image was elected best mobile photo of 2024 by The Guardian. It is one of the several rocks pilgrims on their way to Santiago de Compostela use as reference points.

Noel Gallagher by Kevin Westenberg, October 21, 2008
Š Kevin Westenberg

I’ve always loved this portrait of Noel Gallagher. I first saw it years ago somewhere on the internet and didn’t know who took it until I crossed digital paths with Kevin Westenberg.

On the Threshold in The Listening Room HQ

FrantiÅĄek Kupka – Zeitmessung, 1934

My third post on The Listening Room HQ I speak about being on the threshold.

Stepping across a threshold isn’t just about crossing a line—it’s about entering a space where presence, movement, and attention meet.In this post, I explore how The Listening Room HQ provides a place for men to be heard, to hear themselves more clearly, and to engage in the subtle work of noticing and being present. You can read the full post here: On The Threshold

Wave-Gotik-Treffen, Leipzig 2025 photolog 2

Š Mondo Bizarre Magazine/Gustavo Hochman

We continue our 2025 Wave-Gotik-Treffen photologs. Here is the second one of four, through, as usual, Gustavo Hochman’s lens. We will be at Wave-Gotik-Treffen next year. Meanwhile you can take a look at the 2025 edition, and other years photologs. You can find them below the photos.

Š Mondo Bizarre Magazine/Gustavo Hochman
Š Mondo Bizarre Magazine/Gustavo Hochman
Gernotshagen Š Mondo Bizarre Magazine/Gustavo Hochman
Š Mondo Bizarre Magazine/Gustavo Hochman
Š Mondo Bizarre Magazine/Gustavo Hochman

2025 photolog 1

2025 photolog 3

2025 photolog 4

Other Years:

Wave-Gotik-Treffen 2024 coverage connection

Wave-Gotik-Treffen 2023 coverage connection

Wave-Gotik-Treffen 2019 coverage connection